So who is this mysterious single woman?

"I'm a confident, sexy, 38year old single white female...
lost in the world of dating. A girl trying to her prince,
night in shining armor"


Ok....so lets be a little more detailed! I'm a 38 year old, single Mom of two teenage girls,
I became single 7 months ago after being married for 18 years. I was 19 when I got married and had only been with a couple guys my first year of college. Sex was a mystery to me and when I met the love of my life my second year of college, I knew he was "The One"! Four months later we got married and I had doubts, but I was going to prove to everyone that our love would last forever! Well, the marriage lasted 18 years, I can't really say how long the love did, but we weren't miserable most of the time, so I guess it was ok.

My children are preteens and understand the concept of dating and I know my oldest one understands what happens between men and women because she has has sex ed for two years now. Needless to say, they are excited for me to date. They want me to be happy and ultimately, I think they are excited to have someone in their life that will spend time with them. It is an adventure for them just a much for me. I just know more details of the adventure!

I began dating the week I asked for my divorce. I was ready to move on because I had done my mourning of the marriage before my Ex even knew it was over.

Please don't judge me for the stories I tell, I am just human and learning how to be single! Some of you have been single your whole life, others for a few years after being married, some may be where I was 7 months ago. Ok...if you are married and reading this...it is ok too! You will be able to sympathize with your single friends more!

I realized I wasn't alone in this crazy world of singleness when I watched "He's Just Not That Into You". They made a movie about my life! OMGosh...There must be more women like me out there! I cried through the whole movie the first time and then went to see it again and was able to see the humor in it the second time. I have told my married friends, "When you watch that movie...just remember, that is my life!" They laugh, because they are comforable in their married lives. Married lives, which could end at anytime and they would be thrown out with the lions too!

So I'm going to try to tell you about my dating mishaps and fun and adventures! Hopefully you will be able to relate and laugh and cry with me!

Ps....pass this site on to all your girlfriends! Spread the word!

Thanks....
Just a single girl trying to find her way!