Bringing you up to speed....

Is your seatbelt buckled? Are you ready for a crazy ride through my dating life?

So my current situation as of today is this....

I'm dating a 28 year old loser! He's an unemployed painter that has nothing to offer. So why am I with him ( Painter boy)? I'm in love with him! How did that even happen? Well, let me give a little history on our dating saga...

We started dating 6 months ago, toward the end of August. He first sent me a message on Myspace. I deleted it, thinking...why would a 28 year old be interested in me? Then he sent another message. So I replied and found out he really was interested in me, a 37 year old. Wow, I was flattered. So we texted and emailed for a while, never talking though. After a couple weeks we met for dinner and we promised the first thing we would do is kiss, so the stress was gone. So I pulled up and he was there in the parking lot. We met and kissed and WOW...did sparks fly! We sat through dinner, hardly able to stop from having sex on the table! Ok...I won't go into detail about the date now...that will be another post.

To keep it short for now, he turned out to be a player and last week he decided he "had to be with just me! So here we are dating now, and he hasn't kept his word at all!

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Now back to today, so I woke up with no texts from Painter Boy. I finally texted him asking him is he wanted to do something today like go bowling, because I know he likes to bowl. He sent me back and said he couldn't afford to, so I said I would treat. "I'll let you know" was his texting words (because we never talk on the phone) Haven't heard from him since. It is now 12:35am! Don't think he wants to go bowling today...now that today is over!

Meantime, I played a little with my "phone sex buddy" this morning before I decided to roll out of bed! It is sad, we are both seeing someone and we call each other to get off! He lives too far away to enjoy dating, but he would have been a great catch! We are friends and tell each other most everything about our dating dilemma's.

I went to the grocery store and wandered the isles, hoping maybe there would be a cute single guy, but everyone was a couple or had a wedding ring on.

Then, Mr. Valentines Day started texting me. (A mistake I made on Valentine's Day) He is a 32 year old hillbilly living in the city! He is sexy though! He has sex with his long johns on and unbuttons his pants and puts his hand down his pants while he watches TV. He has been pursuing me since Painter Boy and I got back together. I think it is the thought he can't have me that is driving him to me more!

He works hard to convince me he wants to just be friends now. Finally, I gave in and invited him to go bowling. He complained that he had a hangover from last night and wanted to relax. He suggested going to a movie. I laid down the rules that there would be no touching! Ok...he agrees and confirms that I will come over to his house and we can go from there. I refused and told him there was no way in hell I was coming to his house, that we could meet at the theater. Suddenly...his tune changes, oh no...no the movie theater, we were going to watch a movie at his house. I told him he was crazy and there was no chance of me stepping foot in his house! The texts stopped.

Meanwhile, I had been having a texting conversation with "Rocker" from last night. Rocker is a nice guy, who is in a band and a rocker, obviously! He is fun to be around, just not sure how much of a spark was there. Definitely friend material though!

I went to get my nails done and texted my friend, Keith "Happy Birthday". (Yes, Keith and I had dated a few months back and decided we were too much the same and became friends. I haven't seen him since our last date, but we talk quite a bit and he has helped me through some very hard times!) I have recently started wondering if we truly are supposed to be together, but we are building our friendship first? Hummmm...

So Keith and I chat for a bit and he suddenly offers a night of wild, crazy sex with him. I laughed and said, "Your so funny!" He stopped me and said..."I'm not kidding, that is the man in me talking." I was taken back! So I mentioned the idea that maybe we are supposed to be together eventually. His answer surprised me...he didn't deny it at all, but said "I can't answer that, only God can! We will leave it up to God!" Keith isn't a very religious guy but has decided that God will put someone special in his life when it is time. So we ended our conversation with Keith letting me know he only has his kids on Thursday. So I contemplate what to do!

A couple hours later "Hey there, what are you doing babe?" It's Mr. Vday back for more. He assures me that he just wants to be friends, but I told him that if we were going to be friends, we could only hang out in public. That it is natural for people to end up having sex when they are attracted and at a house. He admitted that, yes, he was attracted to me but that I could trust him! We will just say he was a "Valentine's Day mistake" for this reason! I couldn't trust myself around him, he's just too sexy!!!!!

I got a couple nice texts from a Snowboarding Dad that I had a date with last Saturday night. We went snowboarding and had a great time. He has kind of backed off some since the date though...so I have backed off too. He does still text me and call though, almost every day. He had been out of town for the weekend, so he updated me on how the tournaments were for his daughter. We made tentative plans for this coming weekend. I would love to see him again! The first time I met him, my heart almost stopped! He is everything I want and he is adorable! I sure hope something will come of this one!

Well, no contact from Painter Boy at this point!

What a crazy day! To wrap it up...I had conversations with:

Painter Boy
Phone Sex Guy
Rocker
Keith
Mr. Valentine's Day
Snowboarder